وَعَنْ أَبِي هُرَيْرَةَ رضى الله عنه
قَالَ: قَالَ رَسُولُ اَللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ -«اَلْيَدِ اَلْعُلْيَا خَيْرٌ مِنْ اَلْيَدِ اَلسُّفْلَى، وَيَبْدَأُ أَحَدُكُمْ بِمَنْ يَعُولُ. تَقُولُ اَلْمَرْأَةُ: أَطْعِمْنِي، أَوْ طَلِّقْنِي»
The Messenger of Allah (sallallahu alayhi wa sallam) said: “The upper hand is better than the lower one, and one of you should spend first on those he is responsible to provide for, lest a woman would say, ‘Feed me or divorce me.’”.
Bulugh al-Maram 1333, Book 8, Marriage, Hadith 211. 1 min read