حَدَّثَنَا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ الْمُثَنَّى، قَالَ: حَدَّثَنَا عَبْدُ الْوَهَّابِ، قَالَ: حَدَّثَنَا أَيُّوبُ، عَنْ عَمْرِو بْنِ سَعِيدٍ، عَنْ حُمَيْدِ بْنِ عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ قَالَ: حَدَّثَنِي ثَلَاثَةٌ مِنْ بَنِي سَعْدٍ كُلُّهُمْ يُحَدِّثُ عَنْ أَبِيهِ
أَنَّ رَسُولَ اللهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ دَخَلَ عَلَى سَعْدٍ يَعُودُهُ بِمَكَّةَ، فَبَكَى، فَقَالَ: مَا يُبْكِيكَ؟، قَالَ: خَشِيتُ أَنْ أَمُوتَ بِالأَرْضِ الَّتِي هَاجَرْتُ مِنْهَا كَمَا مَاتَ سَعْدٌ، قَالَ: اللَّهُمَّ اشْفِ سَعْدًا ثَلَاثًا، فَقَالَ: لِي مَالٌ كَثِيرٌ، يَرِثُنِي ابْنَتَيْ، أَفَأُوصِي بِمَالِي كُلِّهِ؟
قَالَ: لَا، قَالَ: فَبِالثُّلُثَيْنِ؟ قَالَ: لَا، قَالَ: فَالنِّصْفُ؟ قَالَ: لَا، قَالَ: فَالثُّلُثُ؟ قَالَ: «الثُّلُثُ، وَالثُّلُثُ كَثِيرٌ، إِنَّ صَدَقَتَكَ مِنْ مَالِكَ صَدَقَةٌ، وَنَفَقَتَكَ عَلَى عِيَالِكَ صَدَقَةٌ، وَمَا تَأْكُلُ امْرَأَتُكَ مِنْ طَعَامِكَ لَكَ صَدَقَةٌ، وَإِنَّكَ أَنْ تَدَعَ أَهْلَكَ بِخَيْرٍ»، أَوْ قَالَ: «بِعَيْشٍ، خَيْرٌ مِنْ أَنْ تَدَعَهُمْ يَتَكَفَّفُونَ النَّاسَ»، وَقَالَ بِيَدِهِ
The Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, visited Sad (ibn Abi Waqqas) in Makka and Sad wept. He asked, “Why are your weeping?” Sad replied, “I fear that I will die in the land from which I have emigrated as Sad (ibn Khawla) died.”
The Prophet (sallallahu alayhi wa sallam) said, “O Allah, heal Sad!” three times. Sad said, “I have a lot of property which my daughter will inherit. Shall I will all of it away?”
“No,” he replied. Sad asked, “Two-thirds?” “No,” he replied. “A half then?” Sad asked. “No,” he answered. Sad asked, “A third?” “A third,” he said, “but a third is a lot. What you give as sadaqa from your property is sadaqa. What you spend on your family is sadaqa. What your wife eats of your food is sadaqa for you. It is better for you to leave your family in a state of plenty (or he said ‘livelihood’) than to leave them where they have to importune people.”