عن ابن عمر رضي الله عنهما
أن رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم عاد سعد بن عباده ومعه عبد الرحمن بن عوف، وسعد بن أبي وقاص، وعبد الله بن مسعود رضي الله عنهم، فبكي رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم، فلما رأي القوم بكاء رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم، بكوا؛ فقال: «ألا تسمعون؟ إن الله لا يعذب بدمع العين، ولا بحزن القلب، ولكن بهذا أو يرحم «وأشار إلا لسانه»
The Messenger of Allah (sallallahu alayhi wa sallam) visited Sad ibn Ubadah during his illness. He was accompanied by Abdur-Rahman ibn Auf, Sad ibn Abu Waqqas and Abdullah ibn Masud (radiyallahu anhum). The Messenger of Allah (sallallahu alayhi wa sallam) began to weep. When his Companions saw this, their tears also started flowing.
He (sallallahu alayhi wa sallam) said, “Do you not hear, Allah does not punish for the shedding of tears or the grief of the heart, but punishes or bestows mercy for the utterances of this (and he pointed to his tongue).”.