وعن عبد الله بن عمرو بن العاص رضي الله عنهما
قال: أقبل رجل إلى نبي الله صلى الله عليه وسلم، فقال: أبايعك على الهجرة والجهاد أبتغي الأجر من الله تعالى. قال: «فهل لك من والديك أحد حي؟ «قال: نعم بل كلاهما قال: «فتبتغي الأجر من الله تعالى؟ «قال: نعم. قال: «فارجع إلى والديك، فأحسن صحبتهما» وفي رواية لهما: جاء رجل فاستأذنه في الجهاد فقال: «أحي والداك؟ قال: نعم، قال: «ففيهما فجاهد»
A man came to the Prophet (sallallahu alayhi wa sallam) of Allah and said, “I swear allegiance to you for emigration and Jihad, seeking reward from Allah.” He (sallallahu alayhi wa sallam) said, “Is any of your parents alive?”
He said, “Yes, both of them are alive.” He (sallallahu alayhi wa sallam) then asked, “Do you want to seek reward from Allah?” He replied in the affirmative. Thereupon Messenger of Allah (sallallahu alayhi wa sallam) said, “Go back to your parents and keep good company with them”. In another narration it is reported that a person came to Messenger of Allah (sallallahu alayhi wa sallam) and sought his permission to participate in Jihad.
The Prophet (sallallahu alayhi wa sallam) asked, “Are your parents alive?” He replied in the affirmative. The Prophet (sallallahu alayhi wa sallam) a (sallallahu alayhi wa sallam) said, “(You should) consider their service as Jihad.”